You respond when softness leads. When attention relaxes instead of presses.
You feel it in the exhale you didn’t realize you were holding… the unclenching of your jaw…
the way your body says, okay… I can rest here.
Your desire emerges slowly, layer by layer.
You don’t need heat to start. You need permission to relax, and the patience that lets safety become seductive.
Your craving isn’t hidden. It’s protected.
And it opens beautifully when met with steadiness—when space is offered, not taken.
When you feel safe, you become irresistible.